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.. Author: Akshay Mestry <[email protected] >
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.. Created on: Monday, February 24, 2025
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- .. Last updated on: Wednesday , February 26 2025
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+ .. Last updated on: Thursday , February 27 2025
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:og: title: Guiding Stars
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:og: description: Expressing heartfelt gratitude to the heros who shaped my
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:avatar: https://avatars.githubusercontent.com/u/90549089?v=4
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:github: https://github.com/xames3
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:linkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/xames3
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- :timestamp: Feb 25 , 2025
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+ :timestamp: Feb 27 , 2025
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.. rst-class :: lead
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Blimey! While writing this article, I paused for a moment to reflect on my
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personal achievements and learnings. As I was thinking about most, if not all,
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- of the significant milestones in my career |dash | from choosing a career path
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- into the realm of Artificial Intelligence to building this platform |dash |
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- stands a massive constellation of remarkable individuals who've shaped the
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- person I'm today. To those prominent figures in my life, this article is more
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- than an acknowledgment; it is a small tribute to those whose support, wisdom,
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- and belief in me have fueled my passion for technology, teaching, and open
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- source.
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+ of the significant milestones in my career, from choosing a career path into
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+ the realm of Artificial Intelligence to building this platform, stands a
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+ massive constellation of remarkable individuals who've shaped the person I'm
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+ today. To those prominent figures in my life, this article is more than an
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+ acknowledgment; it is a small tribute to those whose support, wisdom, and
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+ belief in me have fueled my passion for technology, teaching, and open source.
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+ .. admonition :: A note of gratitude
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+ Like I mentioned, this article is merely a small reflection on my past and
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+ the people who've critically influenced my academic, personal, and
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+ professional journey. Although I've shared comprehensive reflections about
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+ a select few individuals due to a more deeper and personal experience with
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+ them, the impact of everyone mentioned here is of equal significance.
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+ Each one of you has shaped the person I'm today, and this article stands
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+ as a collective token of appreciation or tribute to all your guidance,
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+ friendship, and support.
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.. _like-gaia-you-ground-me :
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.. figure :: ../assets/me-and-mum.jpg
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+ :alt: Me and Mum celebrating my admission into DePaul University
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My mum and I, back in September of 2022, right after my admission into
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DePaul University at our family home in Enfield
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at my peak, you have been there, guiding me through it all, keeping me
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grounded. I'm happy and content today with my life for the choices you helped
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me make. I still remember when I chose the career path to pursue Artificial
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- Intelligence | dash | a field vast and complex at that time | dash | your
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- encouragement was the anchor that kept me grounded and disciplined. All those
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- late nights, sitting at the kitchen table with stacks of programming books,
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- preparing for the certifications and interviews, you would bring a refreshing
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- cup of `Masala chai `_, reminding me not to give up but at the same time
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- reminding the importance of sleep and rest is something I dearly miss.
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+ Intelligence, a field vast and complex at that time, your encouragement was
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+ the anchor that kept me grounded and disciplined. All those late nights,
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+ sitting at the kitchen table with stacks of programming books, preparing for
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+ the certifications and interviews, you would bring a refreshing cup
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+ of `Masala chai `_, reminding me not to give up but at the same time reminding
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+ me of the importance of sleep and rest is something I dearly miss.
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Ever since Father passed, your love has been the very foundation upon which I
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stand, and I'm so grateful for every sacrifice you've made to see me grow and
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**Charlotte **, though you're no longer with us, your influence is an
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- indispensible part of who I'm today. Much like `Uma `_'s love for `Shankar `_,
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+ indispensable part of who I'm today. Much like `Uma `_'s love for `Shankar `_,
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transformed him from a celibate hermit to a householder, your presence in my
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life catalyzed a profound change in me. You were the spark, my Uma that
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ignited my deeper fascination with technology. I vividly remember you helping
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It was because of you, my interest in technology grew with time, and while it
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was growing, you reminded me that these technologies aren't just about
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- algorithms and problem-solving | dash | it is about impact. I remember how you
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- would listen patiently as I rambled about new technologies or tools, always
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- asking the right questions that made me think harder and dig deeper. Your
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- encouragement pushed me to think how technology could transform lives, and
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- more importantly, how I could share that knowledge with others. It was your
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- faith in my ability as a teacher that made me realize the joy of sharing
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- knowledge. You often said, "* Akshay, the best way to learn is to teach. *"
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- Those words still echo in my heart every time I stand before a classroom or
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- mentor someone. In every student I mentor, I see you and it reminds me of our
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- last conversation...
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+ algorithms and problem-solving, it is about ** impact ** they have on our lives.
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+ I remember how you would listen patiently as I rambled about new technologies
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+ or tools, always asking the right questions that made me think harder and dig
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+ deeper. Your encouragement pushed me to think how technology could transform
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+ lives, and more importantly, how I could share that knowledge with others. It
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+ was your faith in my ability as a teacher that made me realize the joy of
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+ sharing knowledge. You often said, * " Akshay, the best way to learn is to
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+ teach." * Those words still echo in my heart every time I stand before a
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+ classroom or mentor someone. In every student I mentor, I see you and it
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+ reminds me of our last conversation...
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-- Charlotte Parks
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- Just as Uma's love shaped and transformed Shankar, your love shaped and
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+ Like I said, as Uma's love shaped and transformed Shankar, your love shaped and
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transformed me, guiding me into my truest form. It was your belief in me as a
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teacher that planted the seed for this very platform. Your spirit lives on in
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every tutorial I write, every student I mentor, and every piece of knowledge I
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Back in 2017, my professional career took off at `Accenture `_. Accenture, the
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company, will always hold a special place in my heart. This is where I was
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- fortunate to work under the mentorship of **Sajith Malayath ** . Sajith was the
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- first person who truly believed in me | dash | not just as a worker, but as
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- someone capable of achieving great things in AI and Machine Learning. It's
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- been quite a while since I worked at Accenture, but I remember when I first
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- started, I was still figuring out my place in the cut-throat corporate world.
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- I was nervous and frustrated at the same time. But you, Sajith, you saw
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- something in me that I wasn't sure even existed.
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+ fortunate to work under **Sajith **'s mentorship . Sajith was the first person
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+ who truly believed in me, not just as a worker, but as someone capable of
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+ achieving great things in AI and Machine Learning. Well, it's been quite a
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+ while since I worked at Accenture, but I remember when I first started, I was
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+ still figuring out my place in the cut-throat corporate world. I was nervous
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+ and frustrated at the same time. But you, Sajith, you saw something in me that
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+ I wasn't sure even existed.
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I'll never forget the day you took me for a walk and explained how to look at
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the bigger picture, about my life, my career, and relationships. I was indeed
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overwhelmed, unsure of myself. But you never gave up on me but pushed me to
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grow in ways I hadn't imagined. Although you were my manager, much senior in
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the career level, you never treated me any differently. Your approach was
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- unlike any I had experienced before. I do remember you telling me, "* It's never
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- about doing things perfectly; it is about learning and evolving along the
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- way. *"
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+ unlike any I had experienced before. I do remember you telling me, * " It's
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+ never about doing things perfectly; it is about learning and evolving along
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+ the way." *
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.. figure :: ../assets/krishna-and-arjuna.jpeg
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Image generated with `Flux-Animex-v2-LoRA
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<https://huggingface.co/spaces/Neaty/anime> `_ model
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Those simple words taught me a lesson that stayed with me ever since. You
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always encouraged me to dive into the deep end, to question things, to
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- understand the "why" behind every decision. And when I struggled, as I
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+ understand the ** "why" ** behind every decision. And when I struggled, as I
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inevitably did, you didn't just offer solutions. You guided me like a mentor,
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always patient, always present, but never hovering. Sajith, you were more than
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- a mentor to me |dash | you were my guide, my `Krishna `_. That guidance is what
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- has carried me forward in my academic and professional pursuits to this day.
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+ a mentor to me, you were my guide, my `Krishna `_. That guidance is what has
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+ carried me forward in my academic and professional pursuits to this day.
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+ .. _my-supporting-cast :
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+ My Supporting Cast
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+ People who are extremely close to me know how much of a cinephile I am. In my
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+ opinion, life, much like a cinema, is not a **solo ** thing. Quite often the
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+ spotlight shines on the lead cast, the actors, directors, etc.; the names we
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+ usually tend to remember. But the true magic of cinema lies in the collective
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+ effort of countless individuals who work behind the scenes. Just like a
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+ cinema, with its unsung heroes, the editors, sound designers, VFX artists, and
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+ other crew members who together make a story come alive, my journey has been
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+ shaped by an extraordinary cast of mentors, friends, and supporters.
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+ Whatever you're seeing here on this website, be it my projects, ideas, the
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+ teachings, all of it is a summation of the invaluable contributions and
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+ influence of those who stood besides me, guiding me, and sometimes pushing me
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+ to go beyond my comfort zone. This section of this article is my version of
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+ the end credits. A tribute to all the people whose names may not always be in
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+ the spotlight but whose impact resonates in every line of code I write and
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+ every lesson I share.
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+ And, just like the credits roll long after the cinema's end, this list will
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+ only grow as time goes on. I'm most definitely looking forward to adding more
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+ names to my cinematic universe.
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+ .. note ::
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+ The below list is in alphabetical order solely for my OCD. It doesn't
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+ imply any other significance. Each individual on this list holds equal
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+ importance for me and has had a huge influence on my life.
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+ .. _madhavi-rege :
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+ Madhavi Rege
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+ A professional badass! Madhavi, you've been an exceptional mentor and have a
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+ strong influence in my life. After training under your leadership and
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+ unwavering guidance, I can proudly say that I've rather **mastered ** the art of
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+ time and work management. I've been asked on several occasions, how do I
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+ manage my time, do all the things I do, or work on my personal projects amidst
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+ all the other responsibilities I carry, and the answer has always been the
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+ same. It's because of someone I worked with previously.
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+ You nurtured my ability to think critically (take everything on email!), plan
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+ through my schedule meticulously, and execute precisely, qualities which even
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+ today I implement in every project and professional endeavor.
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+ Shailesh Kewat
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+ A true friend, gentleman and my steady pillar of support! Looking back at it,
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+ it's funny to see how we became friends during the **"drop" ** phase of our
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+ lives. All the time we spent studying together for the tests, although it
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+ didn't pay off as much as we expected it to, I sure made some amazing memories
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+ with you. Shailesh, you've been there with me not only during my moments of
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+ success but also in the moments of doubt.
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+ After losing :ref: `Charlotte <charlotte-my-uma >`, you've been the one person
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+ who constantly insisted that I teach and provided me with everything I needed
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+ to break through my self-doubts. Your guidance on public speaking and community
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+ engagement helped me build this platform and the confidence I have today.
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+ Shilpa Musale
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+ My beacon of survival and wisdom in the United States! As of writing this
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+ article, `Shilpa <https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Shilpa-Musale >`_ and I
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+ have known each other for a little over a year now. But honestly, it doesn't
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+ feel like that. We met during my first year of school in the US, where I
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+ really felt overwhelmed, lost, and sometimes even isolated. But you made me
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+ feel safe and welcomed.
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+ Shilpa, you've definitely evolved from a confidante to a mentor-like figure in
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+ my life. I still remember you sharing your stories, recounting your
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+ experiences which mirrored mine as I was struggling through my life and
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+ relationship. For me, those experiences were not just mere stories from your
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+ past but **lessons **, each one with deep wisdom that resonated strongly with
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+ me. You've been my anchor, sharing invaluable advice about career and surviving
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+ through these difficult job trajectories. In my moments of loneliness and
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+ depression, your presence was super reassuring. Whether it was a phone call or
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+ a simple message to check in on me or a spontaneous invitation to your place
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+ for a quick walk and talk, you made sure I never felt alone.
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+ Looking back at those moments, I'm filled with a deep sense of gratitude and
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+ I'm grateful that I found a mentor like you.
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.. _Gaia : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaia
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.. _Masala chai : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masala_chai
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